Grandpa!
Where do I begin? How do I find the right words to describe a man whose love, kindness and impact on my life are beyond what words can express?
You were a father, a friend, a teacher, a protector and one of the greatest blessings God gave me. You had the softest heart, yet you were firm, strict and deeply principled. You believed in doing what was right, speaking the truth as it was and, above all, making sure the people you loved had a better future. You were incredibly intentional about mine, and I can confidently say that so much of who I am today is a product of your love, discipline and guidance.
I started living with you when I was just five years old. I was so little that I couldn't even bathe myself, and you took it upon yourself to care for me. Looking back, I realise that I didn't just grow up under your roof; I grew up surrounded by your love.
The very first letters I learnt to spell were the letters of my own name, CHRISTY, and you taught me. I remember how you would make me sit down for Mathematics lessons. Meanwhile, I was never particularly interested and would sometimes run away, but Grandpa would not give up. Those lessons had to happen by fire by force! 😂 Oh, Grandpa, little did I know that one day I would wish for just one more of those moments with you.😭❤️
During my university days, you were undoubtedly one of my most consistent callers. And travelling? Hmmmm! That was another side of you. You never wanted anyone travelling to be out of reach. Whether it was family or anyone dear to you, you were always ready to stay on the phone until they arrived safely at their destination. You didn't just wish people well; you followed up to make sure they were fine. That was the kind of man you were. Your care extended beyond words, and nobody had to question whether you genuinely cared.
And how can I forget your relationship with the little children? Grandpa ate and made sure there was something left for them. As for me, I always had my eyes on the meat after you had finished eating. 😂🥰 Those little moments may have seemed ordinary then, but today, they are some of the memories I would give anything to experience again.
You were a rare kind of man. Genuine, selfless, loving and intentional. You never needed to pretend to be who you weren't. You said things as they were, stood by your principles and made sure your presence meant something in the lives of those around you. You didn't just tell us how to live; you showed us through the way you lived.
Grandpa, you are one of the best things that has ever happened to me. Thank you for the sacrifices I may never fully understand, the lessons I will never forget, the corrections that shaped me and the love that gave me a foundation to stand on. Thank you for being so invested in my future and for always wanting the very best for me.
I have so much more to say, but where do I even begin to find the words? It is still difficult to accept that I will no longer get those calls, hear your voice or have you around🥺
If only life allowed us to bargain for a little more time. I would ask for more conversations, more laughter, more of your advice and even those little moments I probably took for granted.
But even in your absence, your legacy remains. I see you in the values you instilled in me, the lessons you taught me and the person I am becoming. Your love did not end with your last breath; it lives on in everyone whose life you touched.
My prayer is that the Almighty God, in His infinite mercy, grants you forgiveness, receives your soul and gives you eternal rest. May you find perfect peace in His presence.
Rest well, Grandpa. My father in every way that matters, my first teacher, and one of life's greatest gifts to me.
You lived, you loved, you gave, and you made a difference. I am forever grateful that I got to call you mine.
Until we meet again, Grandpa.
I LOVE YOU, ALWAYS. ❤️🌸
REST IN PERFECT PEACE.